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“A Piece of My Heart”: fostering attachment through Parent Child Mother Goose

Sheila Lindfield

“It affected my life hugely”, says Sheila Lindfield, about her experience of taking part in the Parent-Child Mother Goose program as a new parent.  “The importance of using song and rhyme and story as a way of communicating with young babies is now nailed into my soul.”

In a recent audio interview, part of the BC Council for Families’ Voices of Family podcast series, BC Parent-Child Mother Goose coordinator Beth Hutchinson sits down to talk with Sheila Lindfield, Registered Clinical Counselor, Registered Play Therapist Supervisor and longtime Parent-Child Mother Goose supporter. Sheila was first introduced to Mother Goose as a parent, attending the program weekly with her young son. In fact, Sheila was one of the first people in BC to attend a Parent-Child Mother Goose program, taking part during the first year that the program was offered in the province.

Sheila shares with listeners the wonderful impact that the program had on her own family and explores how the theories underlying the program become a recurring theme in her ongoing work with families.

Join Beth and Sheila as they delve further into issues such as social and emotional resilience, responding to babies’ cues and much, much more.  Listen in!

The Power of Rhyme

by Lisa Hurrle
Rhymes are mini stories you can use wherever you are… at home, at the grocery store or even in the car!
 
 
Nursery rhymes have been passed down from one generation to the next for hundreds of years. Despite their often archaic language, they endure as part of our childhood lexicon.   Rhymes are a powerful tool to build language, listening and imagination.  
 
Regular use of interactive rhymes instills a love of language in children and provides a playful way for parents to interact with their children in everyday situations.  In this way, rhymes can become touchstones that strengthen the parent-child relationship.  Imagine how something so simple can accomplish so much!
 
A brief deconstruction of two of the rhymes that we use in the Parent-Child Mother Goose program will illustrate how they contain key elements to build positive family patterns, strengthen the parent-child bond create a strong foundation for literacy.  
 

A Rhyme for Babies

In The Garden Snail, a parent slowly creeps up the baby’s body and then repeats the action quickly, ending in the tickle of a little mouse.  This is a wonderful rhyme to use during diaper changing!  The rhyme itself introduces many things: opposites (slowly and quickly), basic story sequence (beginning, middle and end) and actions that reinforce the meaning of the words (slowly and quickly).  The rhyme slows down language and allows the baby to hear clearly the words and, since it is done face to face, the baby can watch how the parents’ mouth is working to make those sounds and words.  
 
Once the rhyme is repeated enough to become familiar, the baby gains comfort from recognizing the rhyme and confidence from knowing what to expect – a joyful tickle at the end! The baby learns how to read the parent’s facial expressions and tone and the rhyme becomes a  wonderful opportunity to communicate and experience a loving touch and playful tickle.  
 
garden snailThe Garden Snail
 
(With thumb and pointer finger, slowly climb up your child’s arm or leg)
 
Slowly, Slowly, very slowly
Goes the garden snail
 
(Start climbing up again)
 
Slowly, slowly, very slowly
Up the garden trail
 
(With all your fingers tickle up child’s body)
 
Quickly, quickly, very quickly
Goes the little mouse!
 
Quickly quickly, very quickly
Up into her house!
 
 

A Rhyme for Toddlers 

Now let’s take an example of a rhyme we often use with our toddler groups.  We are always amazed how a room of toddlers will hit the deck at the mere mention of “Sleeping Bunnies”.  Not only is this rhyme fun for children, it is a great tool for parents to redirect children, when needed.  The rhyme starts off as a lullabye and then changes pace into an active rhyme.  Children gain practice transitioning from one state (a calm, quiet, pretend sleep) to another (active hopping).  
 
For active toddlers, staying still and waiting for the cue to “hop” is no small thing.  This rhyme helps them practice waiting and delaying gratification.  In addition, some of the words like “merry” and “ill” are words that are not commonly used in everyday speaking.  In fact many of the rhymes used in the program have words that even adults may be unfamiliar with like “cobbler” (someone who mends shoes) and “stile” (a set of steps that from a gate) and pawpaw (a fruit).  In this way, rhymes can be vocabulary builders for children and adults alike!
 
sleeping bunnies
 
Sleeping Bunnies
 
(Have child lie down. Parent rubs child’s back.)
 
See the little bunnies sleeping, sleeping until noon 
Come let us gently wake them with a merry tune
 
Oh so still, are they ill? (big breath in to cue child)
 
Wake up bunnies, wake up now.
 
(Child gets up and jumps around)
 
Hop little bunnies, hopping, hopping
Hop little bunnies, hop, hop, hop
Hop little bunnies, hopping hopping
Hop little bunnies, hop and stop.
 
 
 
 
 
For such seemingly simple things, rhymes can work to achieve many complex results!  Whether we understand the full range of what rhymes can accomplish or not, one thing is for certain: Rhymes have an enduring magic that will continue to make them a key part of the early childhood experience for generations to come.

 

New Videos, Awards, and more…

Songs and rhymes made a delightful addition to the news in one BC town earlier this month. Parents and kids participating in the Parent-Child Mother Goose program in Kamloops, BC were featured in an April 9th ShawTV news item that promoted the benefits of the program to the community.

Check out the YouTube video of the news story (below), which includes footage of happy, singing children and parents as well as interviews and commentary from the two facilitators, Maureen Doll and Marlene Sheppard, who offer the program through the Kamloops Early Language and Literacy Initiative (KELLI).

In other recent news from BC, a program in the community of New Westminster was honoured this March by the United Way of the Lower Mainland with a Spirit of Community Award for the impact it has made in the area of Early Childhood Development. The Mother Goose on the Move Program is delivered through New Westminster Family Place and as Executive Director Marjorie Staal notes, it has been helping parents, grandparents, caregivers and kids in the community for more than seven years.

Check out the other videos that we’ve been adding to our Video page, and links to academic papers and studies recently added to the Research page. Got suggestions for other materials we need to add to this site? Send us an email or leave a comment — we’d love to hear your input.